Saturday, December 20, 2014

Light Around The Corner

I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt in sl. Over the years i have learned alot of things about life, people and myself. but there's one thing that always nags at me when i stop by at heritage adoption center. I've been in sl five years i've been trying to do the sl family thing for four and what troubles me is how people dont always respond when i IM them telling them that i happen to have liked there panel. I suppose you could say after trying this for the past four years I've become anxious when i try yet again to put another panel up an just hope for the best. I feel like there could be a better way to do the whole adoption process in sl. The whole thing really can make someone feel really alone with no support in trying to find a family. The way i picture it is like a mother giving birth to her child then setting her child on the floor naked an cold an walking out the door saying " good luck kid your on your own" and i guess thats really how ive felt the past four years with this. I've even givin up at times an have taken down my panel all because i feel like im not good enough. Granted over the four years i have had my trial an errors with sl family's trying to adopt me but in the end it doesn't always end well. I wonder if there could be a better way of doing the whole adoption process. Having a few panels up at once an only allowing the children be on the panels whether young or in there twenties an only allowing the panels to be locked until you make an appointment with a guidance counselor to help you with the process. Then having the parents make an appointment with the counselor to meet with them to look over the notecards so that they can contact the child on the panel an tell them they have someone waiting to meet them an that the counselor an the parent in waiting can sit down an talk to see if your compatible with the person. So your never on your own an the children that sign up for the panel can always have a counselor available to talk to about the process. Then if the talking session with the parent an counselor go well then you can go on a 5 day trail an during that time the counselor would make a house call to your sl home to see how things are going. This way you dont get random people who are new to the game an are half dressed an have literately no idea what they are doing an want to adopt. There should be a policy that your account should atleast be a year old before you can try to adopt. My idea would probably never work an its probably way to time consuming being sl is just a game. I think people sometimes forget that feelings are a big part of how sl works an i know that people are probably consumed with other things in rl an distracted with stuff there doing in sl but when you see someone IM you an say that they happen to like your NC an want to chat it would probably be best to IM them back an say "thanks i will read your nc soon an when im done we can chat!" I mean how hard is it to IM someone back? Are people really that self absorbed that our society has lost all its manners? Even for a game you'd think people would be kind but really they arnt .....I've learned alot of people in sl can be very two faced because its easier to lie an say your nice when really there personality could be quite the opposite...So if your reading this remember there are people with feelings behind the screen an if somone IMs you IM them back even if you dont always feel like it....

Wednesday, December 17, 2014


Tonight i stopped by Abbys skating party! I've been following her moms blog for quit some time now an i had alot of fun at her  adoptaverasry party! The music was great lots of people showed up! i had a blast even if i didnt talk alot i still had a good time! So happy Gacha day to you abby! You can find her moms blog in my list Cha' know! 

Lets Get cozy!

Todays Look:
Hair : Magika - Thoughtful
Ear muffs : Noodles - darling ear muffs @ C88
Coat an sweater : The secret store - Misha oversized coat @ C88
Leggings : Tres Blah : knitted leggings -cozy pattern @ C88
Shoes : Flite -  First Winter boots -coal - Socks A&M urban tube socks
Hands : Slink with Katat0nik bear gloves @ C88

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Another Look of Today!

Hair - Magika - Thoughtful
Jacket - Coldlogic - anselmo salmon /w shirt
Jeans - Vanilla - skinny jeans dark wash
Boots - Gos - Triumph boots Fem Massai
Hands - Slink

Monday, December 15, 2014

Its been a long day I just want to Chill

So all day today I've been going around joining websites like plurk an facebook an following people on fliker to see if i can get more readers for my blog....I'm really tired but its been a good day an SL only crashed once today! so Im now on plurk , i have an SL facebook, Ive followed alot of people on flikr, I have an slx connect page and a twitter account! Dont know if any of these will make a difference an i really doubt ill ever post on them but its the thought that counts....right? if you want the links to follow me on the websites too search my name inworld Ryuni Helstein an go to my pictures tabs in my profile! Its under Blogs an things

 I'm Tired Goodnight!

My new Business in SL

So i thought id start a Roleplay business an earn a little extra Linden on the side so i present to you

WHATTARELIEF! Providing the roleplay care you need!

Got a date night coming up and need a babysitter? I got you covered!

Have kids that are a handful an want a little extra help raising them? have no fear Your nanny is here!

Planning a party? Let me help you plan it!

Always wanted a roleplay maid to do your housework? well now you can have one!!

Got a huge yard an want some extra help setting out your landscape? I can fix that!!

Prices Veries on what job you need me to do! Very cheep an a fun way to roleplay!!

Contact Ryuni Helstein in secondlife for my business card an prices!

also on a side note bloglovin wants me to post a link so i can claim my blog lol
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Winter Wonderland!

I just love love love winter! I've been exploring this Sim HarborView Family Rp  an came across this cute little winter scene an i just had to take a pic!  I may even rent there an Start up my own little RP business! You should defiantly Check it out! 

Getting warm an cozy!

Thought id do a Look of Today!

Hair - Exile - Locomotion
Outfit - Milk Motion - Belted Sweater Dress @ C88
Shoes - JD - Navajo boots sand /w socks @ Fameshed
Hands - Slink

Friday, December 12, 2014


From previous post of my first account back in 09 i remade her an now she looks like this!

Much better!


Wow! I'm a bad blogger! LOL

Lets get Serous for a moment and talk about our well mine anyways....

Yesterday on sl i was on one of my newest main accounts hanging out in one of my usual places and i realized that i have way to many accounts to keep track of . Then it hit me. Why so many? I think its because its easy  to forget that on sl you can be anyone or anything you want to be because well the possibility's are endless. And for me its rather an excuse to toss more of my real life money into sl an start over completely from scratch then stick to one account. Then you factor in that when drama happens its easier to forget all the bad that happened on that account and start over. That an i like making up random new names for my avis as well. (yes i have issues i think lol) If there was a poll i think youd find most people on sl have more then one account ..confession i have i think over 10 alts. (there should be like a Anonymous Alts group meeting for people who like me are addicted to making new accounts ) Even tho most of them over the years just sit there an i never log in them. As i sat there looking at my avi i realized that i should take a trip down memory lane an go back to the very first account i created back in 09 .......Well......

Yea i dont know what i was thinking back then .....